How To Create A Wedding Budget

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Your wedding spending can very quickly get out of control if you don’t keep an eye on it. One minute, you’re picking up a bargain here, a deal there. The next, you’re looking at your credit card balance and thinking ‘how did the total get to that?’

Here we go over all the things you need to know and types of tools you can use to create a wedding budget.

Wedding money jar on table.

How expensive are weddings?

It actually isn’t all that bad. What you’re thinking of is a bells-and-whistles wedding. If you want to get married, no-frills, it’s possible to do so for around $500 for a celebrant, plus the cost of your marriage license ($300).

The compromise here is the celebrant doesn’t personalize your ceremony, you write your own vows, there’s no music or rehearsal, plus limited options for guests/days/times/places.

This is PERFECT for some couples but for other couples, it’s not an option. Whether that’s not your cup of tea, or you just have to have family there. Whatever the reason, that is your choice. The cost is not being forced upon you and it is under your control.

How do I keep track of what I’m spending on my wedding?

You initially need to figure out how much you have to spend. Although you need to know how much it’ll cost, so you do tend to go in circles working this out.

Once you have a rough idea of what you might have to spend, then you can start fleshing out your wedding budget, to see if the amount you have, the guest list you want, and the wedding vision you’re planning is realistic. You might find the wedding you want won’t work with the budget you have – so as a couple, decide if you change the scope of the wedding (scaling back the celebrations or guest list), or the budget (by finding more money).

Step 1: List out all the aspects of your wedding day

Go through your wedding day in your head, step by step, and start writing down all the costs that may be incurred. For example, your ceremony might include the venue hire, celebrant, marriage licence, seating, decorations, appetizers and dinner afterwards, transporting your guests to and from the venues.

Don’t stress about missing anything out just yet, as this is just a start and you will be adding and removing things down the track anyway.

Step 2: Figuring out your Figures

The next step for your budget is filling in some really rough figures against each item.

It is a  good idea to do this in conjunction with your partner so you can both understand where the money might end up going, and this process can start some conversations about your priorities (did you catch what I said about compromises earlier?).

If you want a guide to what some things might cost, you are welcome to use my budget here.

Step 3: How much does it cost? 

When you get engaged, chances are you don’t know how much stuff costs. So what you first come up with for a budget it is potentially unrealistic. But that’s okay – how many times do you throw a massive party for 100 of your nearest and dearest?

This activity is all about educating yourselves on what your wedding might end up costing.  Total up what you’ve got and pop open some bubbles. Either to celebrate or commiserate what you’ve got to spend.

Wedding Petal Toss Envelopes here

Step 4: What are your priorities?

Reflect on the total that you’ve come to, and decide if that is realistic for you guys. If it isn’t then this is when you need to reflect on your priorities, and whether you need to make some compromises.

Spend some time with your partner (perhaps over a glass of bubbles if it’s a suitable time of day!) deciding your five most important priorities. These are the things that you really want for your wedding day. Everything else you can compromise on, but for these things you’ll potentially go all out.

For example:

  • My husband and I wanted awesome entertainment. To afford that, I only had two bridesmaids instead of the 4 friends I originally wanted.
  • You may be adamant your meal will be spectacular, with four courses and white-glove service. But your partner is not fussed on fancy cars, so he’ll get a ride with his groomsmen, instead of paying for a car service.
  • Maybe you want it all. So instead of compromising on any of the trimmings, you circle back to your guest list and reduce that further, or decide to wait another year, so you can save some more money.

It’s a lot easier to make these decisions now, than when the venue deposit has been paid, or you’ve sent Save the Dates out (nothing more awkward than having to uninvite someone).

Going forward, you’ll need to (somewhat) stick to your budget…this means tracking your spending and being smart with your planning. This is where a wedding planning checklist comes in. Doing things one at a time, and in the right order means you don’t waste money by making mistakes.

For example, getting wedding invites printed before you’ve booked a celebrant and you have to change the ceremony time as that is the only time they can do. That means reprinting the invites or contacting all your guests which is a waste of money.

Step 5: Keeping track

As you book in your wedding vendors, spend money on bits and pieces and pay your deposits, you’ll need to keep track of what is going where, and how much you have spent. I highly, highly recommend doing this in an excel/google sheet template. You can set the spreadsheets up to automatically to tally totals – leaving little chance of being shocked at how much totals have crept up.

This is probably the most important task, because the budget will continuously evolve and change as you get closer to the wedding. Unexpected costs may crop up, unaccounted for fees may be needed or you may even spot a saving that you can cross off the list. When your RSVP’s come in, you can update your figures further as you may not have as many meals to pay for (or booze to buy, if the big drinkers can’t make it!).

By keeping this all accounted for, you will not need to head towards your wedding day with a sense of dread for your bank balance!

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